What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
13.06.2025 08:27
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
How old are you? Male or Female?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
If yes, what?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Do very hot men ever feel attracted to an ugly woman? Why?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve heard pretending to be asleep?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
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53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What is the American mobile phone number format?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
Why is social media so anti-fee speech, and have they become total BS?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Why do foolish atheists think their strange delusional theories are facts?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Does a person with schizophrenia hear voices?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
39~ What are your love languages?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite position? Why?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Would you read them together?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Any that are a turn off?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Any that are a turn off?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
29- How superstitious are you?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
If you win, what will you make them do?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Nothing too Serious
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
62~ Have you used adult toys?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
*** Random Questions ***
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Please share Did you stop?
52~ What are your hobbies?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?